Listen to Crystal Castles - Tell Me What To Swallow song. They get lost in confusion of not understanding the premise of the relationship. Crystal Castles - Tell Me What To Swallow lyrics, translations of the song Tell Me What To Swallow. There's a metagame going on here that people on the outside can't see. Often times in BDSM the one that seems like they're in the position of the least power are actually in the position of the most power, because their needs are the ones being attended to, not the person who is by outside appearances in control.
It might seem like an imbalanced or sick relationship to the outside, but it's exactly what both need, the other in a DD/lg relationship.Īnd just because it seems like the man is in control doesn't make it about some patriarchal bs. But daddy really does care, and he completes her, just as she completes him. You don't get to this place without some abuse, to be certain. Many give up on that after getting so fucked up so many times by people that don't care. She didn't sell out her inner child, the core of her that's truly innocent. She didn't give up, and she took one hell of a beating holding onto that part of her, and her Daddy sees that, and loves her for it. It's also why she smells so pure, because deep down, underneath all the scars and tears, she's remained true to her inner self, her inner child, even though the world tries its damndest to beat it out of you.
This is also why Daddy is capitalized, at the beginning of a sentence. It's a very sacred thing to find that and be vulnerable enough despite all the damage and baggage you've encountered in life to be able to connect to someone in such a profound way. The thing is it's the only kind of relationship two very fucked up and damaged people can have, sometimes. You're also right about it being not quite a healthy relationship by societal standards. You're right about it being like the Hole song, though. It's haunting, because it's real and raw, and talking about something hard to even admit to people, because so many people spit all over DD/lg relationships because they don't understand the dynamics or workings of it even remotely. It sounds solemn, it sounds childlike and without rage or malice. That's why this song sounds so different from all their other music. The only space where calm and rest truly exist for a shattered and beaten soul in this world such as that of a little. It's about a Daddy that cares about her immensely and pushes her through the wall she can't push through herself, into subspace, into little space.
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